February 24, 1924 - December 23, 2021
Eleanor Patricia Schmidt Bender passed away on December 23, 2021 in Lodi, CA at the age of 97.
She was born in Lodi on February 24, 1924 to Sam and Kate Schmidt. She had one brother, Marvin, and two sisters, Loretta and Verna.
She attended Garfield and Salem schools and graduated from Lodi Union High School in 1941. Eleanor was married to Riney Bender for 58 years, until his passing in 2000. Together they raised 3 children, Shirley, James, and Robert.
Eleanor and Riney owned and operated Richfield and Arco Service Stations until retiring. After retirement, Eleanor enjoyed many years of baking specialty cakes for friends, family, and the community. With her newfound talent, Eleanor met and made many new friends thru the demand for her beautifully decorated and delicious cakes.
Eleanor was a volunteer elections inspector for the St. Paul’s American Lutheran Church precinct for more than 20 years; something she took great pleasure in. She was a long-time member of the American Legion Auxiliary, spending many years volunteering for many events.
She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Shirley and Bill Kemp of Galt; son and daughter-in-law, Jim and Kathy Bender of Lodi; six grand-children; nine great-grandchildren; and extended family.
She was preceded in death by her siblings, husband Riney, son Robert, and grandson Ryan.
A private service was held for family. In leu of flowers, please send donations to the American Legion Auxiliary, Unit 22; 320 N Washington St; Lodi, CA. 95240.
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