obituaries

Roberto Rodriguez Cardenas

September 28, 1945 - August 24, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 5:00pm - 8:00pm with an evening service starting at 6:00pm on Thursday, September 10th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00pm on Friday, September 11th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Rodriguez Cardenas family.

Sandra "Sandy" Green

In Loving Memory of Sandy Green
September 20, 1948 - August 24, 2026

Sandy Green passed away peacefully on Monday, August 24th, 2026, at the age of 77. She was born on September 20, 1948, in Oakland, California, to William and Mary McLeish.

Sandy spent the last 23 years of her life in Ione, California, in the home she and her late husband, Ron, built together. Her home was her favorite place to be, especially after Ron’s passing, and it was filled with such great memories and love. 

Sandy and Ron moved to the Lodi area with their three children in the late 1970s. She enjoyed a long career in banking, most notably with Union Safe Deposit Bank and Bank of the West in Lockeford, California, where she worked for many years before retiring.

Sandy enjoyed gambling, watching the Game Show Network, and, most of all, Hallmark movies. Christmas in July was her favorite. Above all, she loved her family and the time she spent with them.

Sandy was preceded in death by her parents, William and Mary McLeish; her husband, Ron Green; and her sister, Gloria Salazar.

She is survived by her children, Tracy (James) Kves of Idaho, Kim (Troy) Wailly of Ione, and Jason (Kelly) Green of Ione. She also leaves behind her grandchildren, T.J. and Karli, Justin and Lexy, James Jr., Emily and Jimmy, Jacob and Gianna, Ashly, and Wyatt; and her great-grandchildren, Colton and Gianna, with little Wesley arriving in October. She is also survived by her nieces and nephews.

At the family’s request, there will be no services at this time. Sandy will be honored by her family at a later date.

We take comfort in knowing that she is now at peace with her husband and the family she missed so very much.

If you would like to honor Sandy’s memory, please make donations to the American Heart Association in her name.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Green family.

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Marco Antonio Hernandez Lara

May 16, 1996 - August 23, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 4:30pm - 8:00pm with an evening service starting at 5:00pm on Thursday, September 1st, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00am on Friday, September 2nd, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Dorothy Ann Ware

January 1, 1948 - August 22, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 12:00pm - 1:00pm on Friday, September 4th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Friday, September 4th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Ware family.

Brenda Joyce Scott-Gordon

December 4, 1953 - August 19, 2026

CHURCH SERVICE
A church service will be held at 10:30am on Friday, August 28th, 2026 at Emmanuel Baptist Church, located at 715 S Windsor Ave, Stockton, CA 95205. The final committal will follow immediately at 1:30pm at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Scott-Gordon family.

Kathleen "Molly" Fleming

May 14, 1942 - August 19, 2026

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Saturday, September 26th 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240. A reception will follow at the J. Charles Irwin Reception Center, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Fleming family.

Mark Aaron Begley

In Loving Memory

MARK AARON BEGLEY

April 25, 1960 • August 19, 2026 • Age 66

"Gentle Giant" • Dad • Doctor Lurch

Mark Aaron Begley, lovingly known as Dad, "Gentle Giant," and "Doctor Lurch," passed away on August 19, 2026, at the age of 66. Born in Missouri on April 25, 1960, Mark made his home in Stockton, California. Though Missouri was where his story began, his soul was that of a California boy.

A Life of Skill and Service

Mark graduated from Lodi Academy High School and spent much of his career as an RV mechanic. He was one of the best in his field. But his greatest work was not what he fixed with his hands— it was what he helped repair in the lives of others.

His Greatest Accomplishment

Mark's greatest achievement was his sobriety. He worked hard at it every day, then devoted his sober life to helping others. He was the person people called when they needed help finding AA, getting to rehab, or simply having someone who understood. He spent his sober days in acts of service and dedicated himself to saving lives from addiction.

His motto was simple: save as many lives from addiction as possible. By that measure, Mark succeeded. The lives he touched will carry his legacy forward.

A Father, Grandfather, and Friend

Mark adored his three daughters, Wendi, Megan, and Brittany, and his grandchildren, Holden, Bryson, and Tinzlee. If his children or grandchildren wanted something, Dad did everything he could to make it happen.

He shared a particularly special bond with his granddaughter Tinzlee Nicole. Their connection was one of a kinda bond that can never be replaced and will live on in her heart forever.

The Man We Will Remember

Mark was stubborn, funny, mischievous, and a true jokester. He loved with every fiber of his being. He loved beaches, pools, and the water, and never completely grew out of the little boy inside him. He was a chameleon who could blend into almost any environment and connect with just about anyone.

"You spent your life saving lives, loving your family, and showing people that another day was possible. You were our Gentle Giant, our Dad, our protector, our comedian, and our hero. We will spend the rest of our lives telling your stories, laughing at your jokes, and carrying your love with us.”

Survived by: daughters Wendi, Megan, and Brittany; grandchildren Holden, Bryson, and Tinzlee; siblings Dianne, Steve, Randy, and Jerry; and stepmother MelaVee.

Predeceased by: brother James, father Donald, and mother Eleanor.

Celebration of Life:

A service was held in Mark's name on August 19, 2026, at the clubhouse where he resided. His presence filled the room as family, friends, and members of his community gathered to celebrate his life, share stories, and remember the man who gave so much of himself to others.

UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN, DAD. WE LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS COULD EVER SAY.


Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Begley family.

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Harminder Kaur

May 1, 1943 - August 18, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 10:00am on Saturday, August 29th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00am on Saturday, August 29th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Kaur family.

Jordan Robert Marr

Jordan Robert Marr
April 26, 1990 – August 19, 2026

Jordan Marr, 36, passed away peacefully on August 19, 2026, following a brief illness.

Jordan graduated from Visions in Education in 2008. In October 2009, he enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps Reserve. Following basic training, he was assigned to 3rd Platoon, Bravo Company, AT Battalion. During his service, Jordan achieved the rank of Lance Corporal and was awarded the National Defense Service Medal and Rifle Expert Badge. He was honorably discharged in February 2013.

After his military service, Jordan worked for several years as a sales associate with various retailers. Most recently, he had the opportunity to work alongside his father in the pool service business.

Jordan enjoyed gardening, camping with his family, and shopping. He will be remembered for his great sense of humor, his deep love of family, and, above all, his kind heart.

Jordan is survived by his parents, Gary and Ronda Marr; brother Korey (Bari) Marr; sister Natalie (Todd) Braverman; nieces Addy and Della; nephew Ryan; grandmother Idella Reed; and many extended family members and friends.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Leora and Lyle Marr, Frank Koyama, and Art Reed.

Jordan will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all who knew him.

FUNERAL SERVICE
A funeral service will be held on Thursday, September 3, 2026 at 1:00 p.m., in the Evergreen Chapel located in Cherokee Memorial Cemetery.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Marr family.

Ema Carolina Almanza

May 28, 1969 - August 17, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 4:00pm - 8:00pm on Thursday, September 3rd, 2026 in the Zinfandel Room in the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

CHURCH SERVICE
A church service will be held at 10:00am on Friday, September 4th, 2026 at Discover Church, located at 760 S Ham Ln, Lodi, CA 95242. The final committal will follow immediately at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Almanza family.

Antonio Barba

October 10, 1949 - August 17, 2026

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 4:00pm - 8:00pm with a rosary starting at 6:00pm on Monday, August 31st, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

MASS
Mass will be held at 10:00am on Tuesday, September 1st, 2026 at St. Anne's Catholic Church  located at 215 W. Walnut St Lodi, CA 95240.  

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Barba family.

Bettie Jane Erbele

Bettie Jane Erbele

May 12, 1936 - August 17, 2026

OBITUARY

Bettie Jane Erbele passed away peacefully at Lodi Memorial Hospital after a brief

illness on August 17 th , 2026. She was born in Lodi, May 12 th 1936 to John and Lydia

Fuller at Mason Hospital and lived her entire 90 years in Lodi. She attended Lodi

Academy and graduated with the class of 1954. After High School she spent a partial

year studying at Pacific Union College in Angwin California before being called home to

assist in the care of her older brother who had fallen ill. Once her brother had made a

full recovery, Bettie took a secretarial job with an Insurance Agency in Lodi where she

eventually met her future husband Melvin Erbele who was working across the street at a

gas station. They met over a cup of coffee and were married a year later on April 20 th

1958. They welcomed their son Brian the following year, and a daughter Shelley a year

later. They spent sixty-eight wonderful years together!

Once her children were in school, Bettie worked part-time jobs as a bookkeeper in the

Lodi area so she would be able to drop them off and pick them up from school every

day. In the 1970’s Bettie joined the volunteer women’s group Omega Nu (Alpha Delta

Chapter) and rose to the level of Grand President over all the Northern California

Chapters. When the children went off to college, Bettie started her own business

opening a Merle Norman Cosmetic studio in Stockton California. With the success of

the first studio, she was offered the opportunity for others. A second in Modesto

California and a third in Stockton’s Lincoln Center soon followed. After graduating from

college daughter Shelley would help Bettie manage these businesses. After Melvin

retired, they would operate these business’s together for twenty years before selling

them to new operators as they got closer to retirement. Bettie also operated a children’s

clothing store in Lincoln Center called Tutto Bella for six years before Bettie and Melvin

decided to sell that business and retire.

Upon retirement Bettie and Melvin enjoyed traveling to Hawaii and Europe and

spending time at their second home on the Monterey Peninsula where they held annual

passes to the Monterey Jazz Festival for many years. Bettie was also a fan of the San

Francisco Giants and would travel with Melvin to spring training in Scottsdale Arizona as

recently as 2025.

Bettie is survived by her husband Melvin Erbele, her son Brian Erbele and daughter-in-

law Laddie, her daughter Shelley and son-in-law Steve Bandoni, their children Brock

Bandoni and his wife Talia, Scott Bandoni, and great grandchildren Ava, Ari, and Mia

Bandoni, and her sister Shirley Blake. She is predeceased by her brother Dr. Leland

Fuller MD, and sister Dolores Vollmer.

A private family service is planned.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Erbele family.