October 3, 1946 - January 2, 2026
Joy N. Tsusaki passed away on January 2, 2026, surrounded by her loving children at the age of 79. She was a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister and friend.
Joy was born on October 3, 1946 in Hawaii to Jack and Jessie Kiyabu. She was the second oldest of seven children, often helping to care for her younger siblings. Joy graduated from Leilehua High School in Wahiawa and attended business school. Shortly after, she boldly decided to be the first of her siblings to leave the island for the mainland in search of a brighter future.
Joy eventually moved to San Francisco, where she met her husband, Matsumi “Match” Tsusaki. She often joked that mutual friends set them up on a blind date. She could tell right away he was “different than the rest, a nice guy”, that he was the one. Joy and Match married and had their son Myles, then moved to Fremont where daughter Kristine was born. They moved to Sacramento and eventually found a home in Rocklin, where Joy resided for 37 years.
While her children were growing up, Joy was a devoted homemaker. She enjoyed taking care of children, even volunteering at their elementary school where she later worked as a teacher’s aide. Joy and Match loved taking family vacations, including trips to Disneyland, Lake Tahoe, Seattle, Las Vegas, even NYC. There were also numerous, memorable trips to Hawaii to spend time with relatives.
When her children were older, Joy went to work full-time. She eventually landed a position at the State’s unemployment department where she worked for over 20 years, ultimately becoming a supervisor. During this time, she helped watch her granddaughter Kilina on weekends. She and Match also helped care for her while she attended community college in Rocklin.
In her retirement years, Joy enjoyed gardening, hosting family holidays, spending time with her “Coffee Group” friends, and traveling with Match around the country. They went to the Grand Canyon, St. Louis, and even took an epic east coast cruise to Canada. When Match passed in 2016, Joy helped take care of her grandson Evan. They formed a special bond, especially sharing a love for sports. Joy recorded games for them to watch together (SF Giants, 49ers, Oregon Ducks), as well as Sacramento Kings games to share with Myles and Sophia who visited regularly. Just like with Myles, Joy attended all of Evan’s sports games and was his #1 fan.
Joy’s greatest “joy” in life was taking care of her family. She will forever be remembered for her warmth, wittiness, humor and kindness. She is survived by her children Myles (Sophia), Kristine (Aaron), six grandchildren: Kilina, Sylvia, Alyssa, Vanessa, Theresa, and Evan, as well as 16 great-grandchildren.
Service:
Joy’s memorial service will be held on Saturday, February 28, 2026 at 11:30 a.m. in the J. Charles Irwin Reception Center at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 Beckman Road, Lodi, CA 95240, with a lunch reception to follow.
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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Tsusaki family.