obituaries

Shirley Ann Curtis

January 21, 1935 - July 6, 2026

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 10:00am on Wednesday, July 15th, 2026 at the Evergreen Chapel  at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off of Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 10:00am on Wednesday, July 15th, 2026 at the Evergreen Chapel  at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off of Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Curtis family.

Ted A. Gonzales

September 12, 1957 - July 4, 2026

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 12:00pm on Wednesday, July 15th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 12:30pm on Wednesday, July 15th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

Please leave your condolences below.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Gonzales family.

Janelle Norma Quaschnick

January 31, 1956 - July 2, 2026

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 4:00pm - 8:00pm on Thursday, July 16th, 2026 in the Merlot Room of Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 10:00am on Friday, July 17th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

Please leave your condolences below.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Quaschnick family.

Kiriaki Aftias

In Loving Memory of
Kiriaki “Kiki” Aftias
June 9, 1934 – July 1, 2026

Kiriaki “Kiki” Aftias passed away peacefully at home on July 1, 2026, surrounded by the love of her three children, who held her hands as she entered eternal rest. She was 92 years old.

Born in the village of Kokkari on the island of Samos, Greece, Kiki was the beloved daughter of Dimitri and Kaliope Yeralis. She was the youngest of nine children. Though her brothers and sisters often treated her as their little sister, Kiki adored each of her siblings and treasured the close bonds they shared.

Her childhood was shaped by hard work, devotion to family, and resilience.

As a teenager in Kokkari, Kiki met Nicolaos “Nick” Aftias, the young man who would become her husband and lifelong companion. After Nick immigrated to Montreal, Canada, he soon sent for Kiki, and they were married in 1954. Together they built a life founded on faith, family, and perseverance. They quickly learned English, though Kiki’s unique and endearing expressions became affectionately known by family members as “Kiki-isms.”

In 1958, Kiki and Nick moved to Vancouver, British Columbia, with their two children and opened the Village Inn Restaurant. Kiki balanced the many roles of homemaker, mother, and business partner while welcoming a third child into the family.

The family moved to Lodi, California, in 1968 so Kiki could be reunited with her beloved brothers and sisters. She worked at the New Yorker Restaurant until 1974 when she and Nick partnered with their nieces and nephews, Dr. Ken and Angie Frangadakis and Michael and Patti Frangadakis, to open Yasoo Yani Restaurant in downtown Stockton. Kiki became a beloved fixture behind the cash register. Gifted with numbers and blessed with a remarkable memory, she greeted customers warmly and remembered details about their families long after they left the restaurant.

Kiki and Nick were devoted parishioners of St. Basil Greek Orthodox Church. She was an active member of Philoptochos and the Lodi Hellenic Society. Her nieces and nephews remember her as kind, gentle, and loving—always greeting them by name and ending every conversation with, “I love you.”

She found joy tending her fruitful farm. Family remember her gathering vegetables and fruit in her apron to share and filling her home with the fragrance of oregano drying on the table. Her life was a beautiful expression of hospitality, faith, hard work, and unconditional love for her family.

Kiki was preceded in death by her beloved husband of nearly 70 years, Nicolaos “Nick”Aftias, her parents, Dimitri and Kaliopi; brothers Anathasios, Stavros, Michael; and sisters Kostandina, Argyro, Eleni, Maria and an infant sibling. She is survived by her children, Fotini Maria Aftias, Licourgos “Leo” Aftias, and Dimitri “Jim” Aftias (Susan); her Goddaughter Daylina; grandchildren, Nick Aftias (Rhiannon), Thomas Aftias (Edlyn), Alexa Aftias-Mertz, Christine Aftias-Sanchez (Anthony), and Michael Aftias; seven great-grandchildren; her sister-in-law, Vasilia Kritikos of Montreal, Quebec; and many cherished nieces, nephews, relatives, and friends.

Funeral Services
A Trisagion Service will be held on Thursday, July 9, 2026, at 6:00 p.m. at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

The Funeral Service will be celebrated on Friday, July 10, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Basil Greek Orthodox Church, Stockton, California.

The family welcomes all who wish to join them in celebrating Kiki’s life, faith, and enduring legacy of love, kindness, and devotion to family.

May Her Memory Be Eternal

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Aftias family.


Cleopatra “Pat” M. Navarro

July 19, 1936 - June 29, 2026

Cleopatra “Pat” M. Navarro, 89, of Stockton, California, passed away peacefully and went home to be with the Lord on Monday, June 29, 2026. She was greeted at the gates of heaven by her husband Jesus and daughter Jessica (Jie).

Pat was born on July 19, 1936, in the Philippines to Jose and Marta Mercado. She was one of nine children, growing up alongside her siblings Apolinario, Bonifacio, Dante, Eduardo, Familo, Jose Jr., Manuel, and Fatima.

She attended Gregorio del Pilar Elementary School and Cayetano Arellano High School (Manila North). Pat went on to continue her education at the University of the East, where she graduated magna cum laude with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration.

After graduation, Pat worked at a travel agency with Auntie Lucing Dacanay. It was a job she truly loved, not only because it opened the door to travel, but it also gave her the opportunity to fly for free so she can shop in Hong Kong and Japan for Christmas presents.

Pat first met Jesus “Jess” Navarro when he was a helper around her family’s home. Little did she know that he would one day become her husband and the love of her life. When Jess joined the Navy at age 17, the two began dating. On November 24, 1960, they were married. Soon after, Pat and Jess immigrated to the United States to support his career in the Navy and begin building a life together.

With Jess often stationed aboard Naval ships, they spent long stretches of time apart, yet their love and commitment remained strong. He was her “Abay” and she was his “Ning.” Together, Pat and Jess built a beautiful family: Joseph John was born in San Francisco in 1965, Jessica Jean was born in Hawaii in 1966, Josephine Jill was born at Port Hueneme (Ventura County) in 1969, and Jae Jefferson was born in Stockton in 1970.

When Jess was eventually stationed in Stockton, the family lived briefly on Rough and Ready Island Naval Base before moving to a triplex on Hammer Lane. In 1972, they settled into their forever home on Falkirk Drive. Having a place to plant roots meant so much to Pat. She knew how difficult it had been for the children to move often and make lasting friendships. Pat told Jess they were buying a house in Stockton and if he wanted to come back, he would know where to find them.

When the children were young, Pat worked as a teacher’s aide at Marshall Middle School. Years later, she began her career as an Allstate agent under Mike Maduena. She eventually worked at the Rough and Ready Island Naval Exchange, where she remained until her retirement. In every role, Pat brought the same dedication, warmth, and strong work ethic she carried throughout her life.

Pat found joy in her hobbies and simple pleasures. Her children remember her as an accomplished home baker who filled their home with delicious empanadas, polvoron, cakes, and leche flan. Pat and Jess traveled throughout their lives with their children and later enjoyed even more adventures after retirement, including cruises to Alaska, the Caribbean, and Mexico, as well as trips to the Philippines, the Holy Land, Europe, and Australia.

When they were not traveling the world, Pat and Jess enjoyed mall walking several days a week, always followed by a delicious lunch with friends. Much of Pat’s happiness came from sharing meals, conversation, and laughter with the people she loved. She enjoyed shopping, and Dillard’s was a longtime favorite. Pat loved staying “in the know” through chisme, often responding with her familiar “Oh really?” and “Wow!” She also had an immense love for jewelry, and no outfit ever felt complete without her wearing several of her beautiful pieces.

Pat was truly one of a kind. She had a heart of gold and was generous, caring, strong, and deeply devoted to her family. She was the center of her family’s world – their Queen. Pat taught those around her the value of faith, hard work, perseverance, and education. Her love was steady, her presence unforgettable, and her legacy will live on in the lives of everyone she touched.

Pat was a loving mother, known affectionately as Ma, and a cherished mother-in- law to her children and their spouses: Joseph and Andrea, Josephine “Jojie” and Daniel, and Jae and Jane. Her greatest joy and one of her proudest accomplishments was being the best Lola to her grandchildren Anecya and her husband James, Joshua, Sydnee, Kiana, Connor, Jessica, and Elijah, and Great-Lola to Benjamyn “Benny.” Pat is also survived by her brother, Eduardo Mercado. She will be lovingly remembered by her extended family and many friends, all of whom will deeply miss her.

The family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to their Ma’s caregiver, Coco, and to Coco’s family, for their love, care, and devotion.

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 4:00pm - 8:00pm with a rosary starting at 6:00pm on Monday, July 20th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

MASS
 Mass will be held at 11:00am on Tuesday, July 21st, 2026 at Saint Luke’s Catholic Church, located at 3847 N Sutter St, Stockton, CA 95204

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Navarro family.

Cecilia V. Flores

In Loving Memory of Cecilia Victoria Flores
November 22, 1928 – June 27, 2026

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Cecilia Victoria Flores, who peacefully entered eternal rest on June 27, 2026, at the age of 97, surrounded by the love of her family.

Cecilia was born on November 22, 1928, in Ash Fork, Arizona. In her twenties, she made California her home, where she built a life defined by perseverance, selflessness, and unconditional love for her family.

Cecilia was a devoted mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, great-grandmother, great- great-grandmother, and cherished friend. Her family was the center of her world, and she dedicated her life to ensuring they were always cared for. She was the kind of woman who quietly sacrificed her own comfort so that those she loved never went without. A remarkably hardworking woman, Cecilia often worked multiple jobs to provide for her family. Throughout her career, she was employed by American Standard Company, worked in janitorial services for PG&E and Mina-Tree Signs, and managed apartment complexes for Bank of Stockton. No matter how demanding her work schedule, she always found time to care for her family with love and devotion. Cecilia found her greatest joy in spending time with those she loved. She had a gift for bringing everyone together through her delicious home-cooked meals, creating memories around the family table that will be treasured forever. She especially loved traveling to watch her grandchildren and great-grandchildren participate in their sporting events, proudly cheering them on every step of the way. Being present for her family was one of her lifes greatest joys, and nothing meant more to her than being surrounded by those she loved.

Cecilia was preceded in death by her loving parents Samuel Flores and Soledad (Sara) Molina Flores, and her brothers Samuel Flores and Alejandro Flores.

She leaves behind a legacy of strength, resilience, kindness, and unwavering love. Cecilia is survived by her loving children, Jerry Flores, Robert Flores, and Cynthia Olmos; her many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great- grandchildren; as well as numerous cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends who will forever cherish her memory.

Though our hearts are broken, we find comfort knowing that her love, wisdom, and example will continue to live on through the generations she so deeply loved. Her life was a beautiful testament to faith, hard work, sacrifice, and the importance of family.

In keeping with Cecilia’s wishes, there will be no memorial services. Her family will honor and celebrate her life privately, just as she requested.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Flores family.

Sandra Faye Appling

January 28, 1950 - June 26, 2026

Sandra Faye Appling passed away peacefully in her home from her short battle with cancer on Friday June 26, 2026, surrounded by her family.

She was born on January 28, 1950, in Bridgeport Alabama to Robert and Dorothy Berryhill. She was the second oldest of nine children.

She married Robert Joe Appling in 1967 and they started their family. They had a total of 5 children, two daughters and 3 sons. They moved around a lot following the harvest as that was their way of life.

They settled down in Lodi in 1982 and called it home. They wanted their children to have stability. They both started working for Delta Packing. Sandra also worked for Haynes Board and Care in Lockeford. She loved working with the residents there. They brought her joy. She would always take her daughter to the Christmas party the had and she would tell her, “This is the best time for them, look at their smiles.”

She loved her family more than anything, they were her most treasured possession. She was the happiest when her family and friends gathered around and the music and laughter could be heard for miles. She enjoyed cooking big meals for everyone, she always welcomed anyone in her home for a meal. She enjoyed canning, couponing and bunco. She enjoyed going to the casino as much as she could. Her grandchildren and great grandchildren were the lights of her life. She would light up when they entered the room. The babies dancing, laughing, smiling and just being there were the best part of her days.

She was very proud of her children and that they all graduated high school. Her two eldest sons Robert Jr. and Ernest joined the Army. That made her and our dad very proud. Her youngest son Terry was the first to give her a grandchild, a baby girl. She was born on our parents’ anniversary. Her daughter Melissa was her joy. They talked for hours and in the latter years were more than mother/daughter they were best friends. They would enjoy shopping, going to the casino, and playing bunco with friends.

She is proceeded in death by her parents Robert and Dorothy Berryhill, her sisters Cathie Adams and Mary Raymond, her brothers, Bill Berryhill and Wayne Berryhill. Her husband Robert Joe Appling. Her children Robert Joe Appling, Jr. and Charlene Evette Appling.

She is Survived by her children:
Melissa Ann Davis (Mike), Ernest Wayne Appling (Sarah), Terry Lynn Appling (Becky).

We consider Kristi Guzman (Anthony), Amber Montgemery, Mike Kackley (Mary), Angel Lonsinger, her daughters and son as well.

Her sisters Deborah Masters (Thomas), Diane Williams and brother Danny Berryhill. Bother-in-law Donald Appling (Christine).

She has several nieces and nephews, most notable Bill Raymond who is more like a son. She has several great nieces and nephews.

She has 11 grandchildren:
Karissa Appling (Virgil), Kayla Appling, Amanda Appling, Tera Appling, Terry Appling, Breanna Gonzalez, (Jayson), Alyssa Appling, Baylie Ward (Allan), Aiden Franklin, Devin Guzman, Penelope Guzman.

6 great grandchildren:
Ivy Graham, Robert Graham, Noah Ward, Alivia Ward, Mabel Gonzalez, Marcello Martinez.

A special thank you to Becky Appling for all your hard work in taking care of mom during this last year especially. We love you.

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 4:00pm - 8:00pm on Tuesday, July 7th, 2026 in the Merlot Room in Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 10:00am on Wednesday, July 8th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

Please leave your condolences below.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Appling family.

Patricia Anne Chadwell

March 14, 1943 - June 26, 2026

Patricia Anne Chadwell, 83, of Lodi passed away peacefully on June 26th 2026.

Pat was born on March 14, 1943, in Los Angeles County, CA, where her father worked as a shipyard welder during WWII. She was the youngest of six siblings. She grew up in San Bernardino, CA, before moving to Lodi with her husband Roy and their young family in 1965. Pat was a loving wife and mother who worked 38 years as a receptionist and assistant for Dr. Kim, a local dermatologist.

After her retirement, Pat was a vigilant caregiver and health advocate for her husband. She enjoyed spending time with her many grandchildren and great-grandchildren and dining and shopping with her friends. 

She is preceded in death by her husband, Roy E. Chadwell, her parents John and Ira Love, and four siblings.

She is survived by her two children, Sherry Dickhoff (Michael Dickhoff) of Lodi and Roy A. Chadwell (Sharon Chadwell) of Galt, her brother James Love of Mesa, AZ, plus seven grandchildren and fourteen great-grandchildren. 

Pat helped to cultivate faith, tenacity and an adventurous spirit in her family line as well as a love for cooking and gardening. She leaves behind warm memories of camping, nature walks, and fishing trips, snickerdoodles, sun tea, and the many delicacies she could create with home-grown produce!

There are no services scheduled at this time. Inurnment is private and Cherokee Memorial Funeral Home will be serving the family.

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Mary Jane Tisher

November 2, 1941 - June 23, 2026

Mary Jane Tisher, a long-time resident of Stockton, passed away peacefully on June 23, 2026, at the age of 84. Born on November 2, 1941, Mary Jane lived a life full of dedication to her career, adventure, and deep devotion to her family. 

For many years, Mary Jane was a familiar and welcoming face in the local community through her work as a banker at the Bank of Stockton. Her professionalism and warmth touched many who knew her throughout her career.

Beyond her work, Mary Jane had an adventurous spirit and a love for life's simple pleasures. She was always ready to go places, whether it was catching a bus trip to explore new cities, traveling out of state to visit cherished family, or finding excitement at the slot machines in the casino.

Mary Jane is survived by her two sons, a brother, and a sister, who will all carry her memory forward.

She is now reunited with her beloved parents, James Wehe and Mary Costello, as well as her cherished husband, Don Tisher, and her dear daughter, Valerie Venable, who both preceded her in death. In a beautiful tribute to their eternal bond, Janie and Don will be laid to rest next to each other.

Mary Jane’s warmth, energy, and love for her family will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

SERVICE
 A service will be held at 10:00am on Thursday, July 9th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Tisher family.

Luis A. Barba

August 8, 1978 - June 22, 2026

Luis was more than just a son, brother, uncle, and father, he was the heart and hero of our family, who was taken far too quickly from this lifetime. He was the kind of person who could light up any room the moment he walked in. His infectious laughter, warm smile, dancing, singing, and endless sense of humor had a way of making everyone around him feel welcome, loved, and at home.

Anyone who had the privilege of knowing Luis knew how hardworking, selfless, and caring he was. He dedicated his life to those he loved and never hesitated to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. Whether it was offering words of encouragement, sharing a joke to make someone smile, or simply being there when it mattered most, Luis touched countless lives through his kindness and generosity.

MASS
Mass will be at the Cathedral of the Annunciation on Wednesday, July 15, 2026 at 10:00am at 400 W Rose St. Stockton, CA 95203.

BURIAL
Luis will be laid to rest on Wednesday, July 15th, 2026 at 12:30pm. Service will be held at the Cherokee Memorial Park and Funeral home. 14165 Beckman Rd. Lodi, Ca 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Barba family.

Natividad Sanchez Rabadan

September 8, 1951 - June 20, 2026

VISITATION
 A visitation will be held from 2:00pm - 8:00pm with a rosary starting at 6:00pm on Wednesday, July 1st, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

MASS
 Mass will be held at 10:00am on Thursday, July 2nd, 2026 at St. Anne's Catholic Church  located at 215 W. Walnut St Lodi, CA 95240. The final committal will be follow at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA, 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Sanchez Rabadan family.

Nova Amera Boccia

April 10, 2025 - May 27, 2026

OBITUARY

With profound sadness and broken souls we announce the passing of Nova Amera Boccia on May 27, 2026. Born April 10, 2025, Nova filled every day of her life with joy, wonder, and unconditional love.  

Nova is survived by her loving mother Amanda Boccia, devoted brother Steven Gonzales, (SJ) grandparents Kim and Pete Boccia and Vera Quesada and Bernie Quesada. Nova is honored among many aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family members who will cherish her memory. She was preceded in death by her beloved father Zac Sebastian Boccia, who tragically passed before Nova was born. Nova Amera Boccia is now in the arms of her Daddy. 

Nova's beautiful smile, embracing demeanor and sweet spirit brought light wherever she went. She was a treasured daughter, sister, granddaughter, and beloved member of a family that adored her beyond measure. In her short life, she taught those around her the power of love, resilience, and the importance of presence in every precious moment.

We are forever grateful for every second we spent with Nova and the light she brought to our lives. Her memory will live on in every story, every smile and every act of love carried out by her family.

Nova will forever be our sunshine, our precious angel, and our greatest blessing. She will be deeply missed and always remembered for her perfect love. 

Nova Amera Boccia will symbolically be laid to rest on Thursday, June 25th, 2026, at 1:00 PM. Service will be held at Cherokee Memorial Park & Funeral Home, 14165 Beckman Road Lodi CA, 95240.

Forever our sunshine. Forever in our hearts. Forever loved. Forever Nova

SERVICE
 A memorial service will be held at 1:00pm on Thursday, June 25th, 2026 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

Please leave your condolences below.

Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Boccia family.

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