obituaries

Charles McClerkin

September 8, 1946 - December 13, 2024

Charles Edward McClerkin, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and cherished member of the Lodi community, passed away peacefully at home on December 13, 2024, at the age of 78. His final days were spent surrounded by his devoted family, following a brief but courageous battle with an aggressive cancer.

Charlie was born on September 8, 1946, in Jackson, Tennessee, to Lonnie and Winifred McClerkin. As a young child, he moved to California, where he spent his formative years in Rio Vista. In July of 1966, Charlie was drafted into the United States Army, serving his country with honor until his discharge in 1968.

After his military service, Charlie worked alongside his father at the Roadway Garage in San Jose, California. During this time, he met the love of his life, Susan Sanders, in October of 1972. The two were married on April 7, 1973, in Lodi, California, where they settled and built their life together.

In 1973, Charlie began a lifelong career in the insurance industry, dedicating himself to serving the senior community of Lodi with integrity and compassion. In 1979, he founded McClerkin Insurance Services, earning the trust and respect of countless clients over the course of his 52-year career.

Charlie’s commitment to his faith and community was unwavering. A devoted member of Century Assembly Church, he served on the church board and the school board of Century Christian School for many years. Known for his kindness and steady presence, he also served as the head usher, ensuring every congregant felt welcomed and cared for.

Charlie’s passions included hunting trips with close friends, boating and fishing on our boat, the Delta Blue II, as well as bowling. Charlie also cherished spending his mornings at the Village Coffee Shop with friends, engaging in lively conversations and enjoying the camaraderie of his community.

Above all, his greatest joy was spending time with his wife Susan, embarking on long drives, adventures across the country in their RV, exploring other countries and creating cherished memories with his seven grandchildren. His love for his family was profound, and he poured his heart into every moment spent with them.

Charlie was preceded in death by his parents, Lonnie McClerkin and Winifred Jordan; three sisters; seven brothers; and his two sons, Brandon McClerkin and Shaun McClerkin.

He is survived by his devoted wife of 52 years, Susan McClerkin; his daughter, Jennifer Murphey (Brian); his son, Sean McClerkin; and his beloved grandchildren: Hudson McClerkin, Judah McClerkin, McKenzie Murphey, Max Murphey, Miles Murphey, Ryer McClerkin, and Maverick Murphey. He also leaves behind many cousins, nieces, nephews, and dear friends who will deeply miss his warm presence and kind heart.

Charlie’s legacy is one of unwavering love, faith, and service. While his absence leaves an immeasurable void, his family finds comfort in their faith, trusting they will one day be reunited.

SERVICE
A celebration of Charlie’s life will be held at Faith Community Church 18621 CA-99, Acampo CA. 95220 on Saturday January 11, 2025 at 12:00pm. The family invites all who knew and loved Charlie to join in honoring his memory. A grave side service will be held privately.

Charlie was a man of integrity, compassion, and unshakable faith. His life was a testament to the power of love, family, and devotion, and he will forever be remembered in the hearts of those who were fortunate to know him.

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Edward (Ed) Roy Schneitman

June 14, 1937 - December 13, 2024

Edward (Ed) Roy Schneitman, 87, died peacefully of old age on December 13, 2024, in Stockton, CA. He considered Hayward, CA, his home for over 50 years.

He was born on June 14, 1937, to Roy Joseph and Lillian Orinda (Rowley) Schneitman in Oakland, CA.  His family moved to Healdsburg, CA in 1945, where they owned and worked a prune orchard. Ed graduated from Healdsburg HS in 1955. He was very active in Future Farmers of America (FFA). Not surprising, Ed pursued a degree in Dairy Husbandry at California Polytechnic State University in San Luis Obispo. His college career was interrupted by his enlistment in the United States Army (1956 to 1959). He was stationed in Pusan, South Korea, and Fort Benning in Georgia.

He married Gabina Susana (Susie) Wong Martinez on October 24, 1965. They were married for 59 years and had 2 children, Orinda Maria (McIntire) and Joseph (Joe) Edward Schneitman.

Ed worked as a crateyard superintendent for Safeway (near Richmond starting in 1960), opened a Jack-in-the-Box in Santa Clara (1968), then worked in various warehouse receiver/manager roles in the Hayward area, ultimately retiring from JCPenney. He earned AA degrees from Chabot College relevant to warehouse management.

Ed is survived by his wife, Susie, his children Orinda and Joe, his grandchildren, Tessa Susana McIntire, Perry Edward McIntire (wife Maria) and Zoey Gabriela Schneitman. He was preceded in death by his parents, Roy and Lillian, his sister Barbara Jean Eyeler, and his grandson, Joseph (Joey) Preston Schneitman. He was a beloved father, grandfather, uncle, padrino, neighbor and friend.

Graveside funeral services are scheduled for December 21, 2024 10am at Lone Tree Cemetery in Hayward (Fairview).

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Remigio Arcelo

March 31, 1942 - December 11, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 12:00pm on Saturday, December 21st, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Saturday, December 21st, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Larry Lackey

June 4, 1949 - December 10, 2024

On December 10, 2024, our beloved Larry W. Lackey went home to his final resting place with the Lord. Larry was born on June 4, 1949, in Stockton, CA, at St. Joseph's Hospital, to James T. and Norma (Crouch) Lackey. Larry was a lifetime resident of Stockton and attended local schools, graduating from Franklin High School where he lettered in swimming and water polo. He would later receive his Associate of Arts Degree from San Joaquin Delta College and then attend San Jose State University and earned a Bachelor of Science Degree. He was the first one in his family to graduate from college. After graduation, he worked for the City of Stockton Parks and Recreation Department as the Director of Pixie Woods and Center Director at Webster Junior High where he coached youth sports teams. In 1979, he began his career with PG&E, in the Energy Conservation and Load Management Department. He loved both jobs and made many lifetime friends, not only at work, but throughout the community. Larry and Susan would marry right out of college and would raise their daughters Nicolle and Tracci Lackey (Dare). He was a loving and devoted Father dedicating his life to making sure that his wife and children were protected and provided for. Larry lived each day to the fullest. He enjoyed playing softball, camping, backpacking, horseback riding, fishing, deer hunting, pheasant hunting, duck hunting and just spending time with his family and friends. Whatever he did, he did it well. After moving to the little community of Waterloo, CA, in 1985, Larry dubbed himself "The Mayor of Waterloo". He especially looked forward  to Sunday family dinners with his granddaughters Elle and Phoebe Dare, where he would find out all the stories of how their week went. He was and always will be their biggest cheerleader and was always there to support them in any way he could, they were his joy. Larry was a lifetime member of the Stockton Sportsmen's Club, where he would win the "Silver Buckle" for trap shooting, beating out some of the best shooters in the club. He was a member of the Delta Dog Pointing Club, competing and judging many field trials; and member of the Camanche Hills Hunting Preserve. After an injury that would leave him paralyzed, he co-founded the Lame Duck Shooters at Cougar Wetlands Hunting Preserve for the physically challenged. He was very proud of this accomplishment and would enjoy many duck hunts and sunrises in the duck blind. Larry was a deep thinker and was always thinking of a way that would allow him to continue to do all the things he did before he was injured.. Thanks to his good buddies, he was able to fish, hunt, travel and enjoy life. Larry was preceded in death by his parents Joe and Lorraine Lackey, Norma Lackey, grandmother Edith Norton, uncle Bill Lackey, brothers Larry Chouinard and Dan Chouinard, and nephew Michael Dan Chouinard. He is survived by his loving wife and soulmate Susan, daughters Nicolle Lackey, Tracci Lackey Dare, son-in-Law Jeff Dare, granddaughters Elle and Phoebe Dare, brother Jim Lackey, sister Dovie McCusker, cousin Chrissy Lackey, brothers-in law Joe Vigil (Sharon) and Nick Vigil (Diana) and nieces and nephews. Larry had a contagious laugh and beautiful smile which will be etched in our hearts forever. His family invites you to join them in celebration of his life on Friday, December 27, 2024, at 10 a.m. at Cherokee Memorial Park Cemetery in the Vineyard Chapel. Larry was very grateful to all his family and friends for always being there to love and support him throughout the years.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00Am on Friday, December 27th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Beryl Dearing Jr.

Beryl Brett Dearing Jr.
January 22, 1950 - December 8, 2024

Beryl was born in and lived in Stockton, California his whole life. He work for Stockton Unified School District as a custodian for 43 years and retired in 2007 as a Head custodian. Beryl enjoyed motorcycle riding, fishing and hunting, woodworking, working on and collecting RC boats and air planes, as well as spending time with his two dogs Bear and Puppers. 

Beryl is preceded in death by his parents Beryl Brett Dearing Sr. and Viola Helen Dearing. He is survived by his sister, Kathy Negrete his nephews Edward Negrete Jr,  David Negrete Sr., and Martin Rodriguez, his nieces Toni Rodriguez and Lorraine Negrete. Great nieces: Michelle Negrete, Alyssa Paculba, Aliyah Paculba, Lea Negrete, Aubryana Barragan and Vanellope Barragan. Great nephews Anthony Acosta, David Negrete Jr., and Elijah Negrete. Great great nieces: Annalisa Green, Juliana Lopez, and Angela Lopez  and a great great nephew Joseph Lopez. As well as his very dear and close friends Russel & Eva Nabayan, Mark & Maria Kralj, Nora Rodriguez and Kimberly & Mike Gillespie & their children Samuel & Jackson Beryl.

Service
Graveside services will be held on Wednesday December 18, 2024 at 11am at Cherokee Memorial Park and Funeral Home. 14165 Beckman Road Lodi, Ca 95240.

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Ieti "Eddie" Nai

May 9, 1950 - December 6, 2024

SERVICE
A service will be held at 9:00am - 2:00pm on Sunday, January 5th, 2025 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 9:00Am on Monday, January 6th, 2025 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Chuor Meng

January 15, 1929 - December 5, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 12:00pm - 1:00pm on Friday, December 20th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Friday, December 20th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Joy Plath

November 23, 1939 - December 3, 2024

Joy Elaine Plath of Lodi, California passed to eternal life on December 3, 2024. Born November 23, 1939, in Sioux City, Iowa to Ruby and Walter Boysen, Joy grew up in Iowa before moving to Worthington, Minnesota where she attended high school. After high school, Joy attended nursing school earning her Nursing Degree and began a gratifying 47 year career as an operating room nurse, most of those years at Lodi Community Hospital and Lodi Outpatient Surgery Center. Joy loved nursing and saw it as ministry apart from the church. She had a heart for the Lord that carried into her care of patients as a calming presence offering peace to patients and their families.

Joy also loved the ministry that accompanied her position as "Pastor's Wife" to Bill, with a genuine love for the church and its members. She had a gift for planning special ministry events and writing skits to accompany them. Along with participating in Bible studies she also enjoyed choir, handbells and leadership in LWML (Lutheran Women's Missionary League).

Joy was affectionately known as Gramma by her 8 grandchildren. She was always eager to hear about the different activities the kids were involved in and freely sang their praises whenever she got the chance.

Her other interests included crafting, reading, traveling, watching and cheering on the Sacramento Kings.

Joy was baptized in the Presbyterian church and confirmed in the Lutheran faith, most recently attending St. Peter Lutheran Church in Lodi. She loved the Lord and gladly, JOYfully, served as His hands and feet throughout her life.

The family wish to thank the Brookdale staff, Suncrest Hospice and Lynette Moline for their compassionate care for mom to the end.

Joy is predeceased by her parents and brother Wally Boysen. She is survived by her husband of 62 years William (Bill) Plath; two sons: Greg Plath (Heidi), Grant Plath (Brenda); one daughter: Janee' Gaffney (Michael); and eight grandchildren: Ben Plath, Elijah Plath, ClaraGrace Plath, Chad Plath, Preston Plath, Andrew Plath, Kate Gaffney and Megan Gaffney.

A private service will take place in January, with a public Celebration of Life event in the future, with details forthcoming.

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Raymundo “Nonoy” Paculba

In Loving Memory of
Raymundo “Nonoy” Paculba
January 20, 1974 - December 3, 2024

Raymundo “Nonoy” Paculba, a beloved son, brother, cousin, friend, husband, uncle, and father, passed away peacefully on December 3, 2024, at the age of 50. Born in Zamboanga City, Philippines on January 20, 1974, Nonoy immigrated to California at the age of 12, with the rest of his many Paculba family members. His roots were in California, an alumni of Edison High, he continued his post-secondary education and pursued a career in the medical field, and raised his two eldest children there. Later in his adulthood, he subsequently relocated to Illinois and continued his career as a Pharmacy Technician. He embraced a life of holistic living, and followed the mantra "Let food be thy medicine." Nonoy lived a life that reflected his beliefs, maintaining an active and healthy lifestyle. This was clearly evident in his fit physique, healthy hair, and flawless skin.

Nonoy was a man of deep faith and unwavering kindness. He was a dedicated deacon at his local church, always ready to lend a helping hand and offer words of comfort. His infectious smile, warm hugs, and inviting spirit touched the lives of many. His life was guided by Romans 8:28: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”

Nonoy’s selfless nature was evident in his final act of love. On Giving Tuesday, he donated his organs, saving the lives of four individuals in need. This extraordinary act of generosity reflects his compassionate and generous soul.

Of all the distinguished roles Nonoy held to the many lives he positively influenced, Nonoy’s most cherished role was that of a loving and devoted father. His children affectionately called him “Daddy,” a title he wore with immense pride. He loved his children deeply and considered them his greatest blessing. The strong bonds he forged with his children were evident in their close and affectionate relationships.

Nonoy was predeceased by his loving parents, Francisco and Lolita Paculba. He is survived by his wife, Amor Jane; and their two young children, Raymundo Jr. and Victoria; and his eldest three children, Rachie, Luke, and Selene; his siblings, Imelda and James.

SERVICES
A viewing will be held at Stockton Fil-Am Seventh-Day Adventist Church on Sunday, December 22, 2024, from 12:00 PM to 4:00 PM with a memorial service following at 4:00 PM to 6:00 PM.

A funeral service will be held on Monday, December 23, 2024 at 10:00 AM Stockton Fil-Am Seventh-Day Adventist Church with interment to follow at Cherokee Memorial Park in Lodi, California.

As we mourn the loss of our dear Nonoy, let us celebrate his life and the enduring legacy of love, faith, and selfless service he leaves behind.

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