Effie Hollstien

Effie Rose Hollstien
September 13, 1927 - June 6, 2024

Effie Rose Hollstien, born on September 13, 1927, in Stockton, California, passed away peacefully at home on June 6, 2024. She was the beloved daughter of Vivian Hayford and Elwood McKee and grew up in Stockton, where she attended Stockton High School. 

After graduating high school, Effie embarked on a fulfilling career, initially working with Poultry Producers and later dedicating her life to early childhood education at the Coretta King Children's Center (Preschool). Her passion for nurturing young minds led her to pursue further education in Early Childhood Development. 

On August 26, 1951, she married the love of her life, Jack Hollstien. Effie and Jack temporarily resided in San Luis Obispo while Jack completed his studies at Cal Poly. They then relocated back to Stockton, where their union was blessed with three wonderful children: Jeff, John, and Jana. Stockton remained their home, where Effie became a beloved and active member of her community. 

A dedicated and loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, Effie served on the John R. Williams Elementary School PTA board and was deeply involved in her children's and grandchildren's lives. Her grandchildren, Jessica, Brandon, Gregory, and Cameron, along with her great-grandchildren, Autumn and Luke, brought light and joy to her life. 

Effie was a woman of faith, remaining a devout Episcopalian throughout her life. She cherished many wonderful vacations domestic and abroad, enjoyed playing bridge, hosting dinner parties, and reading. Her home was always filled with warmth, love, and delicious meals, especially during happy holidays spent with family and friends. 

Despite not knowing how to swim, she enthusiastically participated in adventurous activities such as boating and skiing. She was surrounded by many longtime friends, some of whom predeceased her, leaving behind cherished memories of shared experiences. 

Effie was loved dearly by all who knew her and will be deeply missed. Her legacy of love, faith, and dedication to family and community will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to have known her. 

A private graveside service to celebrate her life was held at Cherokee Memorial Park in Lodi, CA on June 19, 2024. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Delta Humane Society/SPCA of SJ County, or the Alzheimer's Aid Society in her honor. 

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Hollstien family.

Elena Gabriel

September 10, 1951 - June 3, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 1:00pm - 7:00pm with a rosary starting at 5:00pm on Thursday, June 27th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00pm on Friday, June 28th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Gabriel family.

Scott Kaighn

Scott W. Kaighn
July 14, 1968 - June 03, 2024

Scott was born to William and Diana Kaighn in Lansing, MI. His growing up years were spent in Stockton, CA, with his parents and 2 sisters, Deborah Bradberry and Janet Harris (Tony). He graduated from Tokay high school in 1986.

Scott is survived by his 2 sister’s, Debby and Janet, brother in-law Tony, nieces and nephews, Cheryl (Mike), Nick (Katie), Kari (Saul), Branden (Faith), Alyssa (Graham), Chris, and Ashley, Great nieces and nephews, Jarred, Allie, Hannah, Olivia, Kaylee, Jordynn, Lucas, Ava, Liam, Grayson, Addison, Maya and Emersyn Rose. Aunt Lillian Remmey of PA, Uncle Tom and Aunt Linda of SC, and many cousins on the east coast.

Scott raced quarter midget cars as a child and worked in the automotive industry his entire adult life. He enjoyed golfing, fishing and spending time with his close group of friends.

Scott’s services will be held at Cherokee Memorial Park, 14165 Beckman Rd Lodi, CA, 1:00 pm June 28, 2024, information regarding gathering to follow will be provided at the service.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Kaighn family.

Gail Lee

February 16, 1946 - June 2, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 4:00pm - 7:00pm on Monday, June 17th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Tuesday, June 18th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Lee family.

William Sears

April 1, 1946 - June 2, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 10:00am - 11:00am on Wednesday, June 12th, 2024 at the Evergreen Chapel  at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off of Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 11:00am on Wednesday, June 12th, 2024 at the Evergreen Chapel  at Cherokee Memorial Park, located off of Highway 99 at Harney Lane, Lodi CA.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Sears family.

Joseph Parra

Joseph Daniel Parra
July 24, 2009 - June 2, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Joseph Daniel Parra, who left us on June 2, 2024. Born on July 24, 2009, in San Francisco, CA at UCSF Medical Center, Joseph was the beloved son of Jessica and Rafael Parra.

Joseph was born with Joubert syndrome, a rare genetic disorder. From the moment of his birth, he was a fighter, and every milestone he achieved was a blessing. Joseph was a very happy boy, known for his goofy and silly personality. Whoever met him fell in love with him. He was a cherished big brother to his sisters Julieann and Jasmine Parra, and he enjoyed spending time with them.

We are truly going to miss Joseph’s constant smile and his silly laugh, but we know he is at peace now. From the bottom of our hearts, we would like to thank UCSF Benioff Children's Hospital and Lodi Memorial Hospital for everything they have done for Joseph through the years.

Joseph is survived by his loving parents, Jessica and Rafael Parra, and his beloved sisters, Julieann and Jasmine Parra. He is also survived by his grandmothers Trish Werner and MJ/Nana (wife of Grandpa Frank Werner), great-grandmothers Mildred Capaldo and Theresa Werner, Grandpa Frank Werner, uncles Frankie Werner, Beto Parra, Fernando Parra, Jose Parra, and Arturo Parra, aunts Jennifer Werner, Maria Parra, and Marcela Parra, as well as all of his additional aunts and uncles in Mexico.

Joseph was preceded in death by his great-grandfathers Francis D. Werner and Julius Cataldo, and his grandmother Josephina Parra. Joseph was loved by all family members near and far.

A celebration of life will be held on June 17, 2024, at 10am PST at Cherokee Memorial Park and Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Jouberts Syndrome Foundation in Joseph’s name at jsrdf.org.

We invite all who knew Joseph to join us in celebrating his life and remembering the wonderful times we shared.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Parra family.

Thiesmann "Ty" Lim

June 9, 1972 - June 1, 2024

Thiesmann Acuavera Lim, a dedicated servant to both his country and the world of technology, passed away on June 1, 2024. Son of the late Rolando and Aquilina Lim, he was born in Honolulu, Hawaii on June 9, 1972. He lived a life marked by service, education, and a commitment to his pursuit of excellence in his career.

Thiesmann proudly served in both the US Navy and the US Army, where his commitment to duty and honor shone brightly. Following his military service, he pursued higher education, earning a Bachelor's degree in Computer Science from the University of The Pacific. He later obtained  Master's degrees from both St. Mary's College and Boston University.

Professionally, Thiesmann excelled as a Solutions Architect for Blue Shield of California, where his expertise and ingenuity made a lasting impact. Thiesmann's passion extended beyond his professional pursuits as he served as a mentor and guide to aspiring engineers, leaving an indelible mark on the next generation of technological innovators.

Thiesmann enthusiastically engaged in tabletop gaming, harbored a lifelong devotion to Star Trek and a fervent appreciation for science fiction in its entirety. Throughout his life, he exhibited a profound fascination with advancements in space technology. Additionally, he supported the San Francisco 49ers and the Giants. 

Above all, Thiesmann will be remembered as a devoted son, brother, godfather, and friend. He leaves behind a legacy of service, intellect, and love that will continue to inspire and resonate for generations to come. He is survived by a host of loving friends and relatives.

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Leland Marquez

July 30, 1960 - June 1, 2024

Leland Joseph Marquez, a beloved father, brother, and friend took his last breath on June 1st, 2024 at the age of 63. Surrounded by his daughter and loving family during his final moments, he was known for his kind heart and loving soul. A humorous and charming man who embodied dedication and discipline in all his crafts. Leland was a beacon of patience with an unwavering sense of calmness. He leaves behind a legacy through his eloquent writing, heartfelt novels, and expressive poetry that will forever be cherished. Not only was Leland an artistic writer, but an elegant dancer, whose impeccable movements ranged from ballroom classics to sultry bachata. Leland captivated audiences with every step, sophisticated performances that were visually expressive and emotionally moving. Leland always exuded an aura of sophistication with his trendy hair styles and effortlessly fashionable attire. In his younger years, Leland loved to travel and had a passion for bowling – showcasing his mastery of technique and precision with every powerful delivery, consistently achieving strikes and spares. But, despite all his passions, his greatest love of all is his love for his daughter, Gabriella Marquez – an unconditional love that was admirable and unmeasurable. Leland was a devoted father, a dedicated provider, and a steadfast protector, committed to being the pillar of his family.

Preceded in death by parents Jose Marquez and Leonia Marquez, and siblings George Julius Marquez and Robert Lata Marquez. And survived by his daughter, Gabriella Marquez, and siblings Virginia Rasmussen, Rochelle Cervantes, Leila Marquez, Cylla Boris, Kenneth Marquez, Bobby Marquez, Carm Villanueva, Lilani Enciso, Eugene Marquez, Loraine Marquez, Licelle Mallari, and Michael Dale Marquez. Leland was wholeheartedly loved by his family and will dearly be missed. 

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 3:00pm - 8:00pm on Monday, June 17th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

A second visitation will be held from 3:00pm - 8:00pm with a rosary starting at 5:00pm on Tuesday, June 18th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

MASS
Mass will be held at 10:00am on Wednesday, June 19th, 2024 at St. Anne's Catholic Church  located at 215 W. Walnut St Lodi, CA 95240.  

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Marquez family.

Crystal Vierra

December 27, 1935 - June 1, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 9:00am - 10:00am on Thursday, June 13th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00am on Thursday, June 13th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Vierra family.

Lisa Helen Shawhan

Lisa Helen Shawhan
December 12, 1962 - May 31, 2024

After a strong and courageous battle with cancer, the family of Lisa Shawhan is heartbroken to announce her passing on May 31, 2024.

Lisa was born to Barbara Konieczny and Robert Shawhan in Manitowoc, WI.

Lisa is survived by her husband Bruce Anderson, siblings Abby, Dawn, and Jenny Shawhan, numerous nieces and nephews and her precious cats, Roxie and Buster.

Lisa arrived is Stockton, CA on Thanksgiving Day in 1969. Lisa married the love of her life, on May 31, 1997. They traveled to the Bahamas, Alaska, Canada, Washington DC, Michigan, Monument Valley, and Hawaii. They loved spending time at festivals and concerts throughout their years together and would wear matching tie-dyed tee shirts.

Lisa worked at TRC Healthcare for 26 years overseeing the client services department. For the past four years Lisa worked as the Surgery Department Secretary at San Joaquin General Hospital and recently promoted to the Surgery Residency Program Coordinator.

Lisa enjoyed swimming and swam at the UOP pool for over 20 years. She also enjoyed bike riding, walking and staying active. She is famously known for her delicious Peanut Butter Balls made at Christmas time.

SERVICE
A memorial service will be held at 10:00am on Saturday, October 12th 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Shawhan family.

Joseph Grider

Joseph Grider Obituary
July 28, 1991 - May 31, 2024

Joseph Francis Grider was born July 28, 1991 at St Joseph’s hospital in Stockton California.

He was the third of five children born to Cindy Macdonald and Jack Grider.

Joseph attended Annunciation school, St Mary’s high school and later graduated from Montana State University.

Joe grew up playing CYO basketball, soccer with Stockton Youth Soccer Association and baseball from little league through years on a traveling team. During high school he played soccer, baseball and wrestling.

Joe followed his older brothers’ footsteps into Boy Scouts and he too earned his Eagle Scout.

In college, Joe pledged Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity. Over time he became part of the house leadership while also working in the university’s admissions office. During his time at Montana State he made many friends and lasting memories. Joseph graduated with a degree in psychology.

After college, Joe started his career at American Income Life providing affordable life insurance for working families.

Joseph is survived by his parents Cindy Macdonald (John), Jack Grider (Lori), Michael Grider, Mary Grider and Julie Hansen (Chris), aunts, uncles and cousins.

He is preceded in death by his brother John, grandfather Ervin Kruse, grandparents Gene and Ophelia Grider.

Joe had a friendly demeanor and a quick witty sarcasm that always brought a smile. He was always up for a get-together and loved sharing a meal, a beer and spending time with friends and family. His laugh was unmistakable.

He will be desperately missed.

MASS
Mass will be held at 10:00am on Wednesday, July 10th, 2024 at St. Michael’s Catholic Church, located at 5882 North Ashley Lane, Stockton, CA 95215.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Grider family.

Regina Betanio

September 11, 1931 - April 30, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 1:00pm - 6:00pm with a service starting at 3:00pm on Monday, June 3rd, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 10:00am on Tuesday, June 4th, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Betanio family.

Sem Thong

January 1, 1933 - May 30, 2024

VISITATION
A visitation will be held from 12:00pm - 1:00pm on Sunday, June 23rd, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

SERVICE
A service will be held at 1:00pm on Sunday, June 23rd, 2024 at the Vineyard Chapel at Cherokee Memorial Park, located at 14165 N. Beckman Rd, Lodi, CA 95240.

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Cherokee Memorial is honored to serve the Thong family.